In this blog we will delve inyo 5 signs your child might be unsafe online.
The internet has opened up opportunities for children to learn, connect, and have fun. However, it also exposes them to risks such as cyberbullying, predators, scams, and harmful content. For parents, keeping our children safe online is a growing concern. While we want our kids to embrace technology, it’s crucial to be aware of the signs that something might be amiss.
Here are five indicators that your child might be encountering unsafe situations online:
1. Secretive or Withdrawn Behavior Around Devices:
If your child quickly hides screens, deletes chats, or refuses to talk about their online activities, it may be a sign they are engaging in risky conversations or accessing unsafe content. With increasing access to smartphones even in primary schools, children might be exposed to content or conversations they know you wouldn’t approve of. If they’re suddenly spending an unusual amount of time alone with their devices, especially at odd hours, it’s worth a gentle inquiry.
2. Sudden Changes in Mood or Behavior (Offline):
A significant shifts in your child’s personality can be a symptom of online distress. Are they more irritable, anxious, or sad than usual? Have they lost interest in activities they once loved, like playing cha mama or football with friends? Cyberbullying, exposure to inappropriate content, or pressure from online “friends” can take a serious toll on a child’s mental well-being.
3. Spending Excessive Time Online
While kids enjoy TikTok, Cartoons, gaming, and chatting, obsessive screen time—especially at odd hours—can point to unsafe interactions or addictive behavior.
4. Unusual or Inappropriate Language/Knowledge:
Children are sponges, and they absorb a lot from their environment – including the online world. If your child starts using language that is uncharacteristic for their age, or demonstrates knowledge about topics that are clearly inappropriate, it’s time to investigate. This could include slang from adult online communities or understanding of sexual themes they shouldn’t be exposed to. Pay attention to their conversations and what they’re saying to their friends, both online and offline.
5. Avoidance of Real-Life Social Interactions:
While some children are naturally more introverted, a sudden and strong preference for online interactions over real-life friendships can be a warning sign. If your child is constantly glued to their screen, neglecting family time, chores, or playing with neighborhood kids, they might be deeply engrossed in an online world that could be harmful. They might be seeking validation or escaping difficulties in their offline life through online relationships, which can sometimes be with malicious individuals.
What to Do:
Talk openly with your child about safe online behavior.
Use parental control apps and monitor devices.
Encourage responsible use of mobile money services.
Teach them to never share personal details like school, location, or ID numbers online.
Report cases of online abuse to local authorities such as the Kenya Child Protection Unit or via KE-CIRT/CC (Kenya’s cybersecurity response team).